Men myths examined
There are a lot of men myths going around and they are often taken as fact because we are not always in the possession of all the facts. It’s a bit like “Chinese whispers” sometimes and the more the story or fact goes around, the more distorted it becomes.
If we take these kinds of men myths as truth and act on them, then we are heading for a failure. It is better to clear your head of all preconceptions and start afresh. You can also turn to experts to get new insights to lead you on the right path and prevent mistakes.
Certain ideas about men can alter your perception and make you choose bad decisions in your friendships and prevent you from having good relationships with men.
Here are two examples of myths I have been talking about:
1. Guys like low maintenance women
Now what we mean by this term will depend on the question you ask and the answer you get. By low maintenance does it mean having realistic qualities and if so then that is a good thing. But if it means sweet on the outside but an emotional mess on the inside then this would be a men myth as guys would really not want someone like that.
What I interpret personally from this tag “low maintenance” to mean, would be that she is a more natural woman. When we say maintenance we usually mean for her hair, nails, clothes, house and car. Well, this is not true of all men who like their partners to look good and be presented well so this is really a myth. Many men I know have no problem with their women spending money on themselves to make the most of themselves.
2. Falling in love is bliss forever
This is of course a myth and one that really women perceive and not so much the men. As we are human and always changing this means the way we feel about things too. Falling in love is at first a wonderful feeling but it doesn’t guarantee bliss and maintaining a relationship is a part of keeping it alive and healthy. The flush of first love hopefully grows into a strong feeling which will last and not fade. Don’t fall into the trap of being in love for the high it brings.
This first stage will pass but hopefully a better, longer lasting relationship will develop. Nothing runs smoothly, but it is the way we deal with these speed humps that will determine the outcome. Don’t be unrealistic about your expectations. Men and women make mistakes, and also come into relationships with habits and views that we may not be able to accept. So, overall “bliss forever” is another one of the men myths.Not all relationships are forever. This not always is a bad thing. Having a life partner though is something most women want.
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